By My Own Heart and Hand Home Funeral Training
Honouring Life's Final Journey — Embrace the Art of Home Funerals.
This course is suitable for individuals wanting to honour a deceased loved one at home, or end-of-life practitioners, funeral directors, and embalmers looking to expand their knowledge and services. Learn the practical skills, legal considerations, and personalized approaches needed to facilitate meaningful home funerals. Transform the way you say goodbye and build a supportive home funeral community.
The course includes lessons on eco-friendly death practices, rituals and ceremonies for saying goodbye, and how to involve children in home funerals and the death process.
How to Use This Course
FREE PREVIEWWelcome to By My Own Heart and Hand!
FREE PREVIEWCourse Structure and Community Guidelines
FREE PREVIEWMonthly Community-Building Support Sessions
About CINDEA
FREE PREVIEWWho We Are - DWENA Practitioners
FREE PREVIEWCourse Syllabus
FREE PREVIEWCourse Entry Survey
Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability: Introduce Yourself
Read: Brief Overview of Home Funerals
FREE PREVIEWWatch: A Family Undertaking
Read and Discuss: Benefits of Home Funerals
Read and Discuss: Three Kinds of Deathing Ecology
Read: The Importance of Post-death Physical Care
FREE PREVIEWRead: Emotional, Physical, and Logistical Considerations
Read: Practical Skills - Detailed Guide on Caring for a Body at Home
Read and Watch: Dealing with the Body
Read and Watch: Moving the Body
Read and Watch: Washing the Body
Read and Watch: Dressing and Positioning the Body
Read and Watch: Keeping the Body Cool and Dealing with Rigor Mortis
Read, Watch, and Discuss: Final Preparations - Moving the Body Into a Casket and/or Shrouding the Body
Read and Discuss: Final Transporting of the Body
Read and Watch: Supplies for Dealing with Post-Death Physical Care
Discussion: The Importance and Benefits of Caring for a Death Journeyer at Home
Read: The Importance of Planning
Read and Watch: Well in Advance of the Death
Read and Watch: Just Before the Death
Read and Watch: Immediately After Death
Read and Watch: Within the First Few Hours
Read and Watch: Within the First Day or Two
Read and Watch: Within 3 - 4 Days (or just before the burial/cremation)
Read and Watch: Within the Next Week to 10 Days
Discussion: Identifying Potential Challenges
Read: Legal Requirements and Considerations
Read and Watch: Paperwork
Alberta Paperwork
British Columbia Paperwork
Manitoba Paperwork
New Brunswick Paperwork
Newfoundland and Labrador Paperwork
Northwest Territories Paperwork
Nova Scotia Paperwork
Nunavut Paperwork
Ontario Paperwork
Prince Edward Island Paperwork
Quebec Paperwork
Saskatchewan Paperwork
Yukon Paperwork
Discussion: Getting Familiar with the Paperwork
Quiz: Legal Requirements
Discussion: Exploring Death Practices
Read: Making Informed Decisions and Terminology
Read: Disposition Options
Read, Watch, and Discuss: Natural Burial
Read and Discuss: Alkaline Hydrolysis
Read and Discuss: Natural Organic Reduction
Read, Watch, and Discuss: Body and Organ Donation
Read: Other Eco-Friendly Disposition Options and Accessing Eco-Conscious Providers
Read and Discuss: Pet Wakes & Disposition
This course is ongoing and open for enrollment at any time.
Yes! While Canadian-based, most of the information is valid anywhere in the world. Laws and legal paperwork will be different but we're happy to help you find appropriate information for your country. There are a number of United States-based resources provided as well.
The By My Own Heart and Hand course offers flexibility with a **90-day completion window for those seeking a certificate of completion.** For example, if you enroll on April 15th, all course requirements are due at midnight on July 14th. The course is self-paced, with each chapter containing lessons in various formats, such as readings, videos, discussions, assignments, and surveys. In summary, from the day you enroll in the course, you will need to complete everything within about 12 weeks. For those not pursuing a certificate of completion, take your time to absorb the content at your own pace. Once enrolled, you will have lifetime access.
2-3 hours each week is recommended. Some chapters/lessons may take a little longer than others.
Yes! On the third Monday of every month, there is a Community-Building Support Session on Zoom from 5:30-7 PM PST. These sessions offer a nurturing space for learning, sharing experiences, and fostering connections. At least one CINDEA teacher is in attendance at each session.
There a few different payment methods including credit cards, Apple Pay, Google Pay, and *Afterpay / Clearpay (pay in 4 installments). *Please note: Afterpay / Clearpay is only available to Canadian residents.
“I am very grateful to Pashta and her team for creating this course. After completing this course, I felt prepared to begin offering support to those in my community who are interested in having a home funeral and/or making more informed choices around death and dying. This work is deeply meaningful to me and I appreciate Pashta's experience, teaching and mentorship on this journey. — March 2024”
S.S.T.“I thoroughly enjoyed this course! I have come out of it with the knowledge and confidence to guide families through their home funerals. I appreciate the safe space to discuss topics of death and dying and to be a part of an online community with like-minded individuals. I 100% recommend! Everything you need is all there. — May 2024”
Hayley N.“This was a wonderfully informative and practical course for home funeral guides in Canada! I highly recommend this course for your own interest or to help you on your way to guiding families in hosting their own intimate home funerals. — July 2024”
Andrea Roth-Trimble“I just completed the Home Funeral Training, I am a certified End-of-Life Doula and this program has taught me more beautiful ways to support individuals as they come to their end of life. I look forward to sharing with others the possibilities of taking care of our loved ones before and after death. — August 2024”
K. Wright“I loved having the opportunity to particpate in the original recording of many of the modules. Thanks so much for trusting me to provide comments, questions and sharing of my personal experience. These moments were truly healing for me as I navigate the loss and disorganized grief after my father's death one year previous. My big gratitude to the whole team for realizing this course! Namaste — October 2024”
A.K.“I feel so fortunate to have had the opportunity to take CINDEA's one of a kind home funeral workshop, By My Own Heart and Hand. It was extremely well organized with a pace and flow fit for learning. The resources found and offered, relevant to each participant's province, were so generous. I have immensely grown to admire those providing home funeral support and respect the relevance and importance to have home funeral knowledge brought back into our families and communities.”
Jenn Chalifoux, Tree Rings Death Doula Home Support (About the original weekend workshop held on Zoom)“I recently attended Pashta MaryMoon’s By My Own Heart and Hand home funeral training. Pashta and co-pilot Tricia Keith were so generous with their knowledge, and I learned so much more than I had anticipated. One of the highlights was the wonderful group of peers attending the course. By the end of the weekend, we felt a whole lot like community, and I am very moved by the experience. I highly recommend the course for anyone looking to care for their loved ones at home or for End of Life Doulas, like myself, who would like to learn more about empowering and supporting families in home death care.”
Brandi Bailey, Honour End of Life Care (About the original weekend workshop held on Zoom)“I appreciated both Pashta and Madeline's openness to engage in story and answering questions in a very caring way. They both exude a deep knowing and passion for this important work. Not only did I remember in my bones what a sacred gift this is, this knowing to care for our dead, I also felt a deep sense of community. I am grateful for your wisdom and sharing.”
Evamarie Padmanabhan, Little Origin Doula Services (About the original weekend workshop held on Zoom)I have so enjoyed taking this course and spending the time reflecting on what it means to have a good death, for both the death journeyer and their family. It wasn't clear to me beforehand that there were options other than conventional burial and...
Read MoreI have so enjoyed taking this course and spending the time reflecting on what it means to have a good death, for both the death journeyer and their family. It wasn't clear to me beforehand that there were options other than conventional burial and cremation, and this knowledge has brought great comfort because neither was very appealing. I have also learned a lot about the legalities of dying and am better prepared to deal with the eventuality of my own parents' passing. The course material was well presented and many options for further reading/viewing are provided in each unit. The time requirement of 3 months to complete the course is very generous and really does only require about 4-5 hours a week, depending on how much of the extra material you choose to look at.
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